Gamophobia, Waithood, and the Childfree Movement: A Maqasid-Based Legal System Analysis of Contemporary Family Autonomy
Abstract
The increasing prevalence of marriage avoidance among younger generations has profoundly transformed contemporary conceptions of family, autonomy, and legal identity. This article examines the interconnections among gamophobia (the fear of marriage), waithood, and the childfree movement within the framework of current legal systems and the maqasid sharia (objectives of Islamic law). Utilizing a normative socio-legal approach based on interdisciplinary literature, the study investigates how economic uncertainty, psychological anxiety, shifting gender dynamics, and legal inequalities influence contemporary attitudes toward marriage and family formation. The findings reveal that existing legal frameworks frequently fail to accommodate evolving social realities, thereby perpetuating perceptions of marriage as restrictive, burdensome, and incompatible with personal autonomy. From the perspective of maqasid sharia, these phenomena are intricately connected to the challenges of safeguarding faith, psychological well-being, intellect, progeny, and economic stability within the context of contemporary family life. This study argues for adaptive and inclusive legal reforms that reconcile individual autonomy, social justice, and the dynamic objectives of Islamic family law in contemporary society.
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Copyright Holder: Ahmad Rezy Meidina, Syufa’at, Achmad Siddiq, Hariyanto, M. Fuad Zain
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